Mama's Boy

I'll admit it, I'm jealous. Not because of the email. More because somehow, from hundreds of miles away, MarkyBo's old Mama's Boy self managed to top our birthday gift. To make matters worse, he wasn't even TRYING! Dang you mama's boys! I thought it was cute. Cute enough to get it's own special blog shout out. Good job MarkyBo, I think it's safe to say the mission is really transforming you and yet you still manage to maintain your mama's boy nature. Pretty dope if you ask me. This weeks email from MarkyBo to all of the folks on his distribution list -

SO THROUGH THIS PAST WEEK I WAS THINKNG U KNOW MY MOM IS AWESOME..SHES THE COOLEST. THE ONLY WHITE LADY I KNO WHOS FAVORITE RAPPER IS LUDACRIS OR I GUESS THE ONLY WHITE LADY I KNO WITH A FAVORITE RAPPER.HAHA SHE GORGEOUS AND MAKES AMAZING LOOKING CHILDREN..LOL SHES VERY HARDWORKING AND KNOWS HOW TO HAVE FUN. SHES GENEROUS SHES GENIUS SHES JUST EVERYTHING YOU NEED IN A MOM. SHE KNOWS WHAT TO SAY AND HOW TO SAY IT. SHE KNOWS WHEN TO PUSH ME WHEN I NEED IT AND WHEN TO JUST LEAVE ME ALONE. SHES MEMERIZED THE LIKES AND DISLIKE IN FOOD OF ALL THE CRAZY KIDS SHE HAS AND DESERVES THE WORLD. I REALIZED THAT I DIDNT DO ANYTHING FOR HER BIRTHDAY THIS YEAR NOT EVEN A SPECIAL EMAIL TO HER ON HER DAY AND WAS MAD THAT ID HAVE TO WAIT TILL NEXT YEAR UNTIL I REALIZED THIS WOMAN IS MUCH TO SPECIAL TO BE NOTICED OR THANKED OR WISHED A HAPPY DAY ON JUST ONE DAY A YEAR. SO THIS WEEKS EMAIL IS FOR MY MOTHER..THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ALL YOU DO AND FOR ALL YOUVE DONE. I HOPE YOU ARE HAVING A GREAT WEEK!! HAPPY WHATEVER DAY !!! I LOVE U MOM!!!

WORK IS THE SAME JUST TRYING TO DO MY BEST. SO LAST WEEK WE BAPTIZED BROTHER DIEGO. CRAZY THINGS HAPPENED. HE WAS A FIVE YEAR INVESTIGATOR. THOSE ARE THE HARDEST CUZ THEY JUST KNO EXACTLY WHAT U WANNA HEAR. ANYWAYS HE HADNT RECEIVED AN ANSWER AND REFUSED TO BE BAPTIZED UNTIL HE HAD ONE WHICH IS PERFECTLY FINE. BUT HE WAS 91 AND SICK SO WE WERE NERVOUS HED PASS BEFORE GETTING THAT ANSWER. LONG STORY SHORT BROTHER DIEGO TELLS US ON FRIDAY NIGHT THAT HE GOT HIS ANSWER AND WANTED TO BE BAPTIZED THE NEXT DAY. PRETTY HARD TO RUSH THAT BUT WE MADE IT HAPPEN. HE WAS INTERVIEWED AND BAPTIZED THE NEXT DAY ON SATURDAY. THEN SUNDAY COMES FOR HIS CONFIRMATION. EVERYTHING GOES FINE HE COMES TO CHURCH AND IS CONFIRMED UNTIL RIGHT WHEN WE CLOSE HIS CONFIRMATION BLESSING AND SAY AMEN HE JUST SITS THERE. WE KNOW HES OLD SO WE JUST GIVE HIM SOME TIME THEN HE KINDA JUST SLOUCHES OVER. BROTHER DIEGO WAS PRONOUNCED DEAD 2 HOURS LATER. WAHAKO!!!!! I WAS LIKE WHOA!!..IT WAS WEIRD BUT WE FIGURED THAT WAS THE BEST TIME FOR HIM TO GO. HE HAD REPENTED AND WAS CLEAN FROM ALL SIN I QUESTIONED MY SELF AFTER THAT. HE BEING SO OLD HAD TO KNOW HIS TIME WAS CLOSE. BUT US AS YOUNGER ADULTS ARE WE READY AT ANY TIME TO GO?? WILL WE BE CLEAN OF SIN BEFORE OUR TIME COMES?? OR WILL IT BE TOO LATE??.. JUST A THOUGHT. BUT MAN IT IS HOT OUT HERE MAYNE. YA BOI IS DROPPIN WEIGHT LIKE CRAZY IN DIS SUN...AND YES GETTING BLACK!! BUT ISS ALL GOOD. IM STILL A CHILD OF MY MOM WHICH MEANS IM A HOTTIE...HHAAHHAHA....DOOOIN IT..LOVE U WORLD. RYT ME!!!

"E 'Otua Ke Tapuaki Si Eku Fa'e"

Saturday was my moms birthday and while talking with my sisters at home, we couldn't figure out what in the world we could get her! After some thought and a few ideas, we came to the conclusion that we probably don't have to GET her anything. I mean it's nice to buy something and while we would have loved to get her some super pricey fancy gift, it just didn't FEEL right. She's more of a "do" person than a "buy" person. Does that make sense? Anyway, we decided we would do just that. Get up super early on a Saturday (that's tough stuff!) and just DO something for her. We deep cleaned super early, made a big old breakfast spread and spent most of the morning eating and chillin' with the kids. It couldn't have been more perfect. Lani said it best when we were talking about what to buy. "We played it out. Gifts are over-rated. It's too easy." She couldn't have been more right.

In my opinion, she deserves the world. I'd give it to her in a heart beat if it were mine. There is no gift valuable enough to show my gratitude and love for her. So I chose to give time. Something invaluable, just like my Madre.

I needed her more than she needed me.

I had just turned 26. For my big birthday weekend I spent two full days out partying. I mean big bash, dinner with fam, drinks with friends, dancing, out until the sun comes up kinda partying. I even happened to run into Miss Kulu at Glow in San Mateo that weekend. She can testify to how much FUN I was having. ;-) I had a BLAST and I thought there wasn't anything else I would have rather done as I ventured into life in my "late" 20's.

Life went on as usual and 5 days later my niece Kylee was born. I totally remember it like it was yesterday. Still glowing from the weekends events, my sisters and I set out to find some cute GIRLY things for our FIRST sweet niece! Something we hadn't ever had the pleasure of doing since our family was blessed with all boys before her arrival. It was fun!

After visiting Ky, we went home and then I felt it. I don't know how or why, but I knew it. I was pregnant! It was crazy that I found out the day Ky was born and I'll always remember that. Made the usual rounds and told all the sissies and mi madre. It was official and I was excited!

The pregnancy was an easy one compared to the others. I was sick and couldn't keep anything down, ended up being "bedridden" and forced to stay off of work for months. But NOTHING compared to the craziness with Papa and Josh. It felt normal EXCEPT that during every ultra-sound we couldn't figure out if it was a girl or a boy! Doctor Bauhmik joked that the baby was shy, my mom said she knew it was a girl cause she was being "lady like" and not showing off her goodies. LOL Whatever the case, the sex of the baby was completely unknown all the way up until the delivery day.

I had to have a c-section because of a prior c-sec with Joshy. No fun BUT I did enjoy the idea of knowing EXACTLY when I should expect the babies arrival. I was ready. Then SHE came. March 26th. Just Siua and I were in the operating room and the nurses and doc all let Siua announce the sex of a baby. My sweet baby girl. I can't lie, my initial reaction was "dang it!" LOL I wanted all boys. Always have. But there was something so sweet and precious about a little girl. Something that I'm sure I needed to soften me up. I had a name already picked out. Mackenzie Rene. My sister Lani and I were looking over cute uncommon girl names and decided that one was super cute AND had cute nickname potential (such a ME thing). Rene is my sister Kris's middle name. After a few days we were out of the hospital and at home.

The boys adored her. Joshua is her everlasting fearless bodyguard. I'm sure he'll keep her in check when I'm not around. Papa is such a nurturing and patient big brother.

It wasn't until later on that I realized what this precious spirit was going to do for our family. I had been going to church semi-regularly but only staying for sacrament meeting. I wanted my boys to get used to the feeling of attending church on Sunday but thought they were too young to really understand. Obviously I had other priorities and remaining active in the church wasn't one of them. My kids were all blessed right after birth so Mackenzie was no different. After she was blessed by Fekita on the first Sunday of May, I thought things would just kinda fall back into place. Boy was I wrong.

A small turn of events led me down a path that I will be forever grateful for. Starting with Mackenzie's blessing. That Sunday I was heading out after Sacrament meeting and walking to the car. I took the usual route and went downstairs in order to make my quick exit to the parking lot. Just as I was about the turn the corner I saw Lucy (Faaumu) standing in the doorway to what was then, Lavina's Sunday School class. She saw me heading out and said "You're not coming to class? Lavina's really good!" to which I replied "Nah, I'm out. I ain't trynna sit there with my kids making noise. LOL" with that wise crack, I was out. No hesitation. I thought about it though. All week long actually. So the very next Sunday I decided I would actually go to Sunday school class. It had been YEARS since I'd stayed for the whole 3 hours of church. Figured it would be good for the boys too.

During my first Sunday "back" I couldn't help but cry real tears during Sunday school. Lucy was right. Lavina was an amazing teacher. She found a way to make the lesson, whatever it was, hit home. She did it time and time again. One Sunday after another. My interest grew, my faith grew and little by little right in that class Mackenzie grew! She was my little symbol of how much spiritual growing I was doing. I knew that she was only a month old the first time I stayed for Sunday school so as I saw her reach her little milestones, I found myself reaching some of my very own. It because of her sweet spirit that I was even at the chapel in the first place the day that Lucy mentioned Sunday school. She had so innocently, being the youngest of us all, placed our family on the track of spiritual progress. I couldn't be more humbled by the experience.

Happy Birthday Luvie Luvs. You blessed us all before you even knew the power of a blessing. I love you. Endlessly and Unconditionally.
Mom

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